Kuyabonakala ukuba umyeni wayenomfazi wakhe ukuba asebenze kangangokuba wayekulungele ukubeka nawuphi na umngxuma emzimbeni wakhe ukuze aphumle, ngoko ke wafumana ummelwane, awayemtyhola ngamaxesha athile phambi kwakhe. Ngexesha elifanayo akanqandeki ngokupheleleyo, kwaye unikezela kwi-esile, kwaye kuzo zonke ii-slits azicelayo, kuba iqhude lakhe elikhulu lithanda ngokucokisekileyo, ligweba ngokububula kwakhe, nangaphezulu ngokucokisekileyo.
Abafana benkomo bayazi ngamantshontsho. Kwaye le bakhetha ukukhwelana ngesizathu - uneendlela ezibalaseleyo. Emva kokukhwelana nokusebenza yonke imingxunya yakhe enencindi – amadoda amnika inaliti yobisi ngomlomo wakhe. Hayi bo malume!